What are the secrets of being likable?
What are the secrets of being likable? Alden Tan , studied at National University of Singapore Updated Oct 31, 2018 · Upvoted by Elaine Green , Photographer, nurse, music teacher, mom to an active toddler Never try too hard. People can tell when you try too hard. That is a major turn off. People would think you're clingy, desperate and annoying. Look good. Face it. People are judgmental creatures. This ain't about attraction as in in the realm of dating and relationships. This is about looking presentable so people would want to like you in the first place. So do what it takes. Get new clothes. Trim your hair. Workout. Smell good. Nobody wants to be near a smelly piece of shit. Do what it takes to smell good. Go to a doctor if you have to. Don't show up sweaty. Speak well. If you sound too intimidating people may be turned off. If you speak too softly, it may come across as anno...